Stay Out of Court
Stay Out of Court
Stay Out of Court
Divorce can be nasty, dramatic, and cost a fortune. Yours doesn’t have to.
Sit right down with our mediator and your spouse and craft a mutually beneficial solution.
Our experienced divorce mediator will guide you, educate you, and provide you with creative options to resolve your differences without ever having to go to court.
Mediation is the easiest, most direct, and least expensive approach to starting the next chapter of your life.
Be empowered by our experienced team to divorce on your own terms and on your own schedule.
Providing a healthy path to divorce.
Simplifying divorce, without cutting corners.
Mediation provides a straightforward, efficient and transparent way of getting you the information you need early in the process so you are ready to move forward. Our streamlined approach offers efficient resolution while maintaining attention to detail.
Start the next chapter of your life FAST.
Court is expensive, time consuming, and highly contentious. Instead of waiting months for a court date, start the next chapter of your life quickly with mediation.
We’ve Helped Over 700 Couples Start The Next Chapter
- Mister PMister P
I am in the military and I approached the Family Law Office of Barney with a unique situation. He did a great job in understanding some of the unique language and restrictions being in the military sometimes places on us. What I liked most about Barneys counsel is that he was focused on advocating for me but also respectful of other options to reaching an agreeable resolution between my wife and I.
Barney went above and beyond in performing his duties as my counsel and I give my recommendation to any in need of a quality Family Law attorney.
- Virginia BaysVirginia Bays
Barney was such a pleasure to work with. He made the whole process of going through divorce painless. I would highly recommend the mediation process to anyone presented with the necessity of dissolving their marriage, and Barney's depth of experience with the divorce process, as well as his pleasant personality, make him the ideal mediator.
- Christopher BrownChristopher Brown
Barney was clear, compassionate, and exceptionally easy to work with throughout the entire process. He is highly responsive and concerned for the best possible outcome for all parties. It was as good an experience as we could have hoped for.
- Carla JacobsCarla Jacobs
Barney and his team assisted us in getting through a difficult process with professionalism and care. Because we had already come to many logistical agreements, he oriented us to the process of how to interpret this legally and took care of all necessary fillings. His office was prompt in returning phone calls and setting up appointments.
- Shalyn CyrShalyn Cyr
Barney was exceptionally adequate with his professional skills making sure we understood the laws of the court for our divorce. He was very thorough & patient with our legal needs to process our decisions equally! I highly recommend Barney for your divorce!
- Michelle CervantesMichelle Cervantes
Very experienced and explains everything so clearly! Made the process so much easier!
- Martin ReisertMartin Reisert
Barney handled our divorce with unparalleled professionalism while maintaining empathy and support for both parties involved throughout the process. Should you need such services, Barney is ideal.
We don’t just help couples with the heavy lifting of divorce.
We empower them to move forward with their lives on their own terms without involving the legal system.
- Over 700 successful mediations.
- 100 Plus hours of Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce Training
- Family Law Settlement Judge, San Diego County Superior Court.
- 28+ years of experience helping couples get divorced.
- Providing separating couples with all the tools they need to stay out of court and divorce in a streamlined, cost-effective way.
Schedule an Initial Consultation
Make sure we understand your specific challenges and goals. Use our Calendly link to find a convenient meeting time for you and your spouse.
Commit to Mediation
Once you complete your consultation we will send you an email with next steps and a link to schedule your mediation appointment.
Get it Done
Don’t leave your future in the hands of the court system, make your own divorce and custody decisions with the help of our experienced team.
The average divorce costs $17,000 per spouse without children and $23,000 per spouse with children and takes an average of over 2 years to complete. Divorce litigation is contentious, drawn out, and leaves important decisions about your life in the hands of strangers.
With mediation our trusted guide empowers you to take control of your own future. The average mediation takes 6 months to completion, costs a fraction of what litigation does, and leaves decisions about child custody, support and division of property in your own hands rather than those of a judge or social worker you’ve never met before.